Monday, April 12, 2010
Parent and Teen
Go to Connect Safely , Select News & View and read the article about "Teen files harassment charges against mom for Facebook posts". Give a quick summary of what happen and how you feel a relationship between a parent and child could be so unhealthy. Is this relationship beyond repair? What are your thoughts?
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
I think that the kid filing the case against his mom is dumb. She doesn't trust him because he was posting comments about driving 95 miles per hour. The relationship is unhealthy because they don't talk at all. She had to go stalk his facebook to see what he is doing. I think the relationship is beyond repair if they're going to court over a minor situation like this. The kid needs to realize that it's her computer and her internet, so it's pretty much her facebook page.
ReplyDeleteA mom hacked into her sons facebook page and posted comments without him knowing. The relationship between the parent and the son is not very good because the mom doesn't think she can trust her son. I think the relationship is beyond repair because he doesn't even live with his mom he lives with his grandmother. I think what the mom did was kinda wrong but she was just trying to see what her son was doing.
ReplyDeleteI think it the mom's fault for this problem. She really didn't have to hack his Facebook page she could've simply monitored it from her computer.
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with that woman? You don't just snoop around on your kids private stuff, and then change everything just so the kid can't change anything. If anything that mother could've asked the son to start watching what he was writing, and if things got too bad, then i can see her having a right to do something, but not that drastic. If either one of my parents did that then i would never trust them again, and I could not forgive them for something like that, especially if my mom did as Denise did, and where she was writing about her son's life, and writing slanderous stuff, it's just not right, but i also don't think that it should have been brought to a court either because thats something that adds to the gap thats being placed between mother and son.
ReplyDeleteA sixteen year old boy is pressing charges against his mom for hacking into his face book account, changing his password and making slanderous comments about him. I think the relationship between a parent and child can be unhealthy. Maybe they didn't get along for all their life and probably never will. Their relationship between each other in this case could be fixed.
ReplyDeleteI think the kid filing a law suit against his own mother is dumb. Why would you even file a law suit because your mother went on to your facebook. It isn't that big of a deal that she went on to it, its your own mother its not like it was a stranger. I think the relationship between the mother and son will take some time to get back to normal maybe a couple of talk therapys together to talk about what happend. I do think it was wrong for the mother to go on his facebook and then write remarks on it about him, if she was so curious on what he was doing she should of just read stuff about him and then talk about it at dinner. But i can see why the mother did go on it to find out what her son was doing.
ReplyDeleteA kid in Arkansas sewed his mom for harassment for changing his Facebook account login and posting as if she were him. I think that their relationship was strained after the mother got a divorce. The mom was probably looking out for her kid but she doesn’t know when to stop. The relationship between them would probably be okay if she had talked to him about it and not taken it into her own hands.
ReplyDeleteI personally would be super mad if my mom did that to me and hacked my facebook and changed my password. Obviously the mom is probably jealous over her son, and she doesn't trust him. If you loved your son you wouldn't be posting personal information on your sons facebook in the first place. I think that her son has every right to take this to court, i fully support her sons decision. I don't think this relationship could ever be fixed, if they wanted it to, then they would need alot of help. And maybe the mom did it because of the divorce and now she doesn't trust men, but there could be many reasons to why she did this to her son.
ReplyDeleteI believe that the son was making a larger deal out of the situation then what actually happened. The mother is just concerned about her son's well-being. She was trying to protect him, like any mother would. However, I do think she should have talked to him about it before hacking onto his Facebook with out permission. The relationship between mother and son does not look like it will ever have a bright future. The son is already living with his grandmother and having this case will probably never reunite mother and son due to miscommunication.
ReplyDeleteA teen in Arkansas filed charges against his mom for taking over his Facebook profile and writing slander on it. I think that the relationship between the mother and son could have a lot to do with the divorce. I think that if the boy was doing nothing wrong and the things he was posting weren't harmful to himself or anybody else she should allow him to use it. If she was that worried what her son was doing on his profile she should've asked him if she could check it out with him there instead of taking over it completely.
ReplyDeleteWhat happened was the mom hacked her kids facebook, changed the password and then posted bad things about him.I think the relationship of the parent and the child got so unhealty because of the breakup that the mom had.I think they can still have a chance to have a better relationship though. The mom could say sorry after her son cools off a little and he can forgive her. That can then start a better relationship.
ReplyDeleteI think that if a kid under age should have some space from his/her parents but should be ably to tell there parents when theres a problem... parents that read your things and change your stuff should not have had your password or email in the first place... parents think they can help a lot of times but then they just make things worse then what you wanted them to be so it can be hard to repair.
ReplyDeleteThe mother had went on the sons Facebook and changed things and put un-needed comments about him. I think that this relationship is very unhealthy because the son does not even live with his mother. I do not think that this relationship is beyond repair. I think that the mother and the son could sit down and talk about it and maybe have a better relationship.
ReplyDeleteThe mom hacked into her sons computer to see what he was saying. She could have just made one herself under a different name and just monitored it, but she didn't so I guess that it's her fault for all the comocian.
ReplyDeletethe mother should of never done that. she should've just told him that she doesn't like what he's posting on his facebook. i don't think the son will ever forgive his mother again.
ReplyDeletethe mom should of never done that. she should've just went up to him and told him he was posting things that he shouldn't of posted. i think the relationship won't be saved. the son will probably never forgive the mother.
ReplyDeleteWell the mom was in the right, but also in the wrong. Yeah i understand she wanted to check on him, but she could of just asked. She did not need to hack his facebook and write stuff about him on it. They are going to need help so they can save their relationship.
ReplyDeleteI can't blame the kid for being mad at his mom. his mom went on his facebook account writing horrible things about her own son. I don't blame him but, suing his mom? They obvioulsly have a terrible relationship if the son has to sue his mom instead of talking it out. Situations like these don't need to be held in court.
ReplyDeleteGood insight from all of you. 95 miles per hour ... unbelievable. It’s sad when parents pit child against another parent in a divorce situation. It’s always the children who lose in this situation. Many of you brought out the fact that the son was living with the grandparent, hence proof of an unhealthy relationship. Good observation. However, love between parent and child is so very strong. I pray the two can come to some type of agreement and get past this incident and start building a healthy relationship. Many teens and young adults don’t see eye-to-eye with their parents. The young adults want to cut the apron strings while the parents are holding on tight afraid to let go because they fear the child may make bad choices that will have devastating effects on their life. In these situations, as the child grows older (25 to 30 yrs.) relationships often grow closer. The child is less resistant and the parent lets go more. Give your parent a hug today, they love you and only want the best even though you may not always see eye-to-eye.
ReplyDelete